What Does He Think of Me Tarot Interpretations
Tarot cards have been used for centuries to answer life's most important questions. Tarot readings can answer questions about your career, life events, and even love. Love readings are one of the most popular reasons Tarot is used today because love is one of the most important aspects of our existence. When using tarot for love questions, it's important to fully understand the symbols and meanings throughout each Tarot card in order to access a meaningful answer.
What This Can and Can't Tell You
There are certain rules around what the cards reveal and what they cannot foretell, but the most important thing is that you don't depend on what a card shows as what will certainly happen. The decisions you make in your life can change your trajectory, so while it's good to hope for the happiness that comes from love, remember that you still need to decide what you want and act accordingly.
These types of readings should not be performed by anyone other than a skilled reader because the interpretation of the cards can heavily influence your actions, beliefs, and plans for a relationship, and it's essential that you are close to par with your interpretation. That is to say, the cards can show you what's available to you, In this article, you'll explore how to use Tarot cards to answer the age-old question, "What does he think of me?".
Love Readings Do’s and Don't’s
A Love Tarot reading is a bit more complicated than a generic Tarot reading because it includes more than one person's energy, emotions, beliefs, and desires. Tarot can help you access truth in regards to another person and their love for you, but depending on the question you ask, you can get answers that aren't beneficial for you. In love, asking questions about the present is most beneficial because they have happened or are currently happening right now.
Future questions can change by a simple choice or action made by the querent, and any answers you receive about the future may not be concrete. A Tarot reading illuminates the paths available and can show you the first step to take on one, but it does not paint a specific picture of exactly what will happen. This comes up a lot with the Break up Spread. A Tarot reading can give you valuable insight which can better position you to succeed, but it won't give you a Hollywood style fortune teller crystal-ball reading into events to come so you can save yourself from any form of disappointment.
Your life is in your hands, we wouldn't have free will otherwise. Part of being a person is making your own decisions; no three cards will can interpret your energy to the extent of giving you an exact projection.
If you are wondering how someone feels about you, always clarify that you want to know how they feel about you right now or how they've felt about you in the past. Asking how they'll feel about you in the future or if they're going to develop feelings for you will not give you an accurate answer.
As a final note, this type of reading is much more about interpreting energy than a full spread. You can use a three card Tarot spread, or even use one Tarot card to represent your energy and another to represent your person's.
Card Interpretations
Tarot cards are first divided into two sections, the major arcana, and minor arcana. Then, the minor arcana are divided into four suits. The Tarot suits are the cups, coins, wands, and swords. In a reading asking about someone's feelings for you, each of these suits will provide you with an in-depth look into his mind and how he feels about the situation.
Major Arcana
In a love reading, the Major Arcana appears to represent your connection's overall energy. If you only draw one card, a major arcana may appear to give you the most direct and insightful message. If you draw multiple cards, the major arcana will represent the foundation of the relationship, and the minor will represent the finer details of his thoughts and feelings.
Because the major arcana are vast and hold a magnitude of meaning and depth, each card can give you the clarity that you seek to answer your question of "What does he think of me?".
Examples of Major Arcana Interpretations
For instance, the Lovers card comes up in a connection where there is a lot of love between the two of you, and he holds the relationship very dear to him. If this is the first thing to come up, in any reading... you're in luck.
Pay attention to the Sun and Moon Tarot cards as well. They represent powerful energies that have a lot of power of you and your person as it relates to this kind of Tarot reading.
In Tarot, the Death card gets a lot of attention. Representing change or transition, it doesn't inherently point to anything good or bad, it relies on the context of the other Tarot cards that emerge.
The Fool card may express that he feels the relationship is joyful and inspiring, but he may feel it lacks the proper foundation to be successful long-term.
The Devil Tarot card may come up during a love reading if the relationship feels very negative or toxic for him as if he's trapped by the connection is feels emotionally, physically, and spiritually weighed down because of it. It could be that the man thinks the relationship will adversely impact his idea of living free, or he just has generally negative feelings about a relationship at the moment.
In these kinds of readings, the Hanged Man tends to emerge. We've mostly noticed this in women who speak extensively about their hopes for love, fear of hurt, and so on in the context of a relationship. The advice of this Tarot card is to free yourself from these worries and desires. Know what you want, but don't drive yourself crazy overthinking and worrying about it. Focus on what you can do, and acknowledge that you have the power to figure out whatever life throws at you. Don't forget all the examples of you displaying strength and ingenuity in your life. You can do it!
If you draw three cards in a Tarot reading for love, and most of the Tarot cards are Major arcana, it's likely that significant feelings already exit between you and your person.
The major arcana is a great way to find the overall theme within how he feels about you, exploring their entire depth of meaning and recognizing whether the card appears upright or reverse. Pay attention to any minor arcana Tarot cards that appear within the reading for context clues into what areas of your connection he may feel the overall feelings of the major arcana drawn.
Minor Arcana
Cups symbolize emotions. If cups come up during this Tarot reading, he likely feels a lot of emotions towards you, and the connection may be emotionally charged right now. Some of the cups symbolize happy emotions, open communication, and fulfillment. This typically indicates you and your person are free to openly express yourselves and your feelings. But, other cups represent failure, the need to walk away, and the feeling of loss.
The coins represent the more practical feelings someone has towards you. For instance, if he feels money or the material world is important within your connection, these cards may come up. They can also represent the hard work and time put into a relationship or any efforts that still need to be invested for the connection to be successful.
The wands represent action, movement, and passion. If you find wands coming up during your reading, this may be because they feel a lot of passion towards you, or the relationship has moved very quickly for them. This all depends on the specific card within the wands that comes up during the reading.
The swords are associated with how he may think about you. Certain sword cards symbolize positive thoughts, inspiration, and joy, while some of the swords symbolize feeling trapped by one's mind, the inability to make a decision, and feelings of betrayal. When swords appear within a love Tarot reading, they can give you a very clear and insightful look into the mind of your love.
Tarot Spreads
Lastly, complex Tarot love spreads can also be used to conduct a "What does he think about me?" Tarot reading. Each of the card's placements will have an in-depth meaning that can help you piece together the overall answer to your question. Once you've drawn the cards, if you initially aren't happy with the Tarot cards drawn, don't reshuffle and draw again. Contemplate the many meanings and combinations throughout the entire spread and find the answers that resonate with you.
Use your intuition to guide you towards uncovering more clarity and understanding within this connection. If your reading provides you a fortune that isn't what you wanted to hear, that's okay. Give it some time and ask the question a different way to see if you can find a different perspective that allows you to have a better understanding of the connection and the ability to move forward.
What to Do
If there is a person you desire, don't wait for an indication from the stars to pursue him or her. Take confidence in your power, drive out your fears, and let your charm win your crush! Tarot cards can give you insight and a sense of direction, but it comes down to you getting what you want. Tarot isn't giving you good fortune, you are! The Tarot cards just comment on the best actions you can take towards your person. So if things work out, remember it wasn't the three cards you pulled, it was YOU!
We all have free will, and that includes your love, so you can't necessarily expect to have mutual feelings by default. That's fine, some people are better off as friends, other times the other person isn't in the position for a relationship. Realize that a lot of it comes down to forces outside your control.
The only wrong thing to do is not take action because you are afraid. Don't hold yourself back, the regret of losing a potential lover is much greater than the string of rejection! It's all part of life, and you'll ultimately end up with your soul mate as long as you stay on your True path.